She’s Not Interested In Attending Her Sister’s Wedding Because Her Sister’s Fiancé Simply Doesn’t Like Her, And She Has No Idea Why
This young woman is 21 years old, and her older sister, who is 24, is currently engaged.
Her sister and soon-to-be brother-in-law, who’s 25, have been together for three years now. Yet, unfortunately, she’s never actually been able to form a bond with her sister’s fiancé.
According to her, he simply “tolerated” being around her in the beginning, and they were able to have some “decent” discussions.
“But now, it’s like he doesn’t want to know I exist,” she revealed.
To be clear, her sister’s fiancé doesn’t actively try to stop her sister from seeing her. He also seems to genuinely like the rest of her family. She’s just the exception, and she has no idea why he doesn’t like her.
She’s tried asking her sister about his strange attitude toward her, but her sister also has no idea why he dislikes her.
“My sister has asked him before, and he always gives vague answers or no answer at all,” she explained.
Now that her sister is officially engaged, the tense relationship between her and her future brother-in-law is causing some wedding planning drama, too.
That’s because her sister actually asked her to be a bridesmaid at the wedding. However, she doesn’t even want to attend the event at all, given her sister’s fiancé’s behavior toward her. She simply thinks it will be awkward.
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“I also don’t want to cause any drama between her and her new husband if he chooses to ignore me or avoid me during the ceremony,” she added.
This has left her sister in a tough situation, too. Her sister obviously loves her and wants her to attend the wedding, but she also doesn’t want to just leave her fiancé over this.
Apparently, there’s only one possible reason she and her sister could think of as to why he doesn’t like her. In the past, she used to be a dancer at an adult nightclub, and her current boyfriend runs an adult nightclub right now.
Her family never had an issue with this, but perhaps her future brother-in-law does.
Either way, he’s never actually confirmed exactly why he doesn’t like her. And now, she’s not sure if skipping her sister’s wedding due to this would be justified or make her a jerk.
Do you think her sister should confront her fiancé about this? Would you want to be a bridesmaid at a wedding where the groom disliked you?
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