She’s Tired Of Her Friend’s Fiancé Coming To All Of Their Events, So When He Showed Up At Her Birthday Dinner, She Made Him Leave
A 27-year-old girl has a friend a year older than her who got engaged not too long ago. This friend of hers is the very first girl in their group to get a ring on her finger, and they are all thrilled for her.
Despite how cheerful they are about their friend’s engagement, they all have taken note of something they find strange.
As soon as their friend got engaged, her fiancé started showing up to every single one of their events that they expected to include just the girls.
But before their friend got proposed to, her fiancé never once invited himself to anything, which leaves them wondering what’s going on and what changed.
“Her fiancé is ALWAYS there,” she explained. “I mean, every event my friend is invited to, he’s there. Girls’ night out? He’s there.”
“Weekend getaway? He’s there. Movie night with the gang? He’s there. He. Is. Always. There. We are all singles, so he’s the only guy in our chillings. For my birthday this year, I wanted to do a little dinner at one of the girl’s condos.”
“Movies, board games, good food. I really wanted it to be only girls since two of the group are religious (one Jewish, one Muslim) and would be able to remove their veil and dress “less modestly” (a term they used). So I specifically told my friend to NOT bring her fiancé as it is only girls.”
Her friend said it wasn’t a big deal for her to leave her fiancé at home and that she was looking forward to the birthday dinner.
The evening of her birthday dinner arrived, and there she was sitting with her girlfriends in her friend’s condo when the door rang.
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She went to open it, and she was shocked to see that her friend had shown up with her fiancé in tow.
Her friend tried to walk inside, but she prevented her from doing so. She let her friend know that her fiancé wasn’t invited, as they had previously discussed since her birthday bash was only for the girls.
Her friend brushed her off and insisted it wasn’t an issue that her fiancé had come with them since he comes to every single event they have.
“I told her it was a big deal, and she’s disinvited, and she and her fiancé can leave,” she said. “She told me I was being ridiculous, a hypocrite…She left, and she stopped talking to me.”
Several of her girlfriends believe that it wasn’t nice of her at all to ask her friend’s fiancé to leave and that she should not have made it into such a big deal.
She is not in agreement with her friends who feel this way, and she’s left wondering if what she did really was so mean.
Do you think she had every right to ask her friend’s fiancé to leave after she made it clear this was a girls-only birthday bash?
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