His Wife Went Out To Lunch With Her Friends And Left Her Wedding Ring At Home, And Then He Discovered That She Was Texting Another Man She Met A Few Days Earlier
This 26-year-old man has been with his 26-year-old wife for 8 years in total, and 2 years ago, they tied the knot.
Yesterday, his wife went out for lunch with one of her friends, and this friend is not somebody he really likes.
His wife’s friend has caused issues for him and his wife in the past, but now that she is pregnant and in a good relationship, she hasn’t been trouble lately.
As his wife left for lunch, he said he hoped that she enjoyed herself, and he asked if she could bring him something to eat.
A couple of hours into his wife being at lunch, he goes on social media and discovers his wife tagged in a slew of photos, along with some more friends of hers that she isn’t supposed to be hanging out with.
These particular friends are around the same age as him and his wife, but they love drinking and drama, and he and his wife already had a conversation about cutting them out of their lives because of the issues they create.
At one point, these friends of his wife ruined his wife’s birthday and then tried to blame him for being a bad person for working as much as he does and for not wanting to go drinking.
Now, he and his wife are pretty well-off where they live (he makes $100,000 a year, while most people where they live only make $40,000), and they had come to the conclusion that they should only be spending time with people that are also interested in success and focused on family.
The friends his wife went to lunch with do not care about success or family, so he instantly wasn’t thrilled about that.
Andrii – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
He could also tell from the photos of his wife that she was at some bar, so he knew she would not be bringing food home for him.
He walked into their bedroom to get ready to go out and grab some food for himself, and as he was in there, he saw the promise ring and wedding ring she always wears were right there on their dresser.
He then sent his wife a text that said, “Thanks for forgetting to let me know that you went to the bar for the 2nd time this week.”
His wife had just been out at that exact bar a couple of nights earlier, and she was there until the clock struck midnight.
His wife texted back an apology before insisting she was going to tell him that she was going to the bar and not out to lunch.
He countered with a text stating that he had never once seen her take her rings off in the 8 years that they have been together, so he figured this had to be “intentional.”
It all went downhill from there as they argued back and forth, but then he said he was going to take some time to cool off because he was afraid he would say something too hurtful.
Eventually, his wife came home, and she told him that she was going to go stay with one of her friends in light of the fact that they were in a disagreement.
His wife has never said something like that to him, so he just said that was fine with him. But instead of his wife walking out the door, they actually sat down and had a meaningful conversation.
“So anyhow, we ended up talking, and I let her know that I have never and will never be controlling of her or what she does, but if she intends to have such large negative influences so heavy in her lifestyle, and that I wanted a family with her dearly, however, I wasn’t willing to bring a child into the world while those people were around,” he explained.
“She started to cry and agreed that she was sorry and that it sounded like a plan as it has always been her dream to be a mom, an even better mom than she had growing up as she had an extremely rough upbringing. I nearly raised her, to say the least.”
“So she goes to bed, and I hear her phone go off; I didn’t think anything of it, but there was something that felt like a knife going into my gut, so I grabbed her phone and let her know that I was going to charge it since it was almost dead. I waited nearly an hour and then opened up her Snapchat, and lo and behold, I found it all. She met a guy at the bar on Thursday. I started to read through it and started crying.”
His wife had sent some very steamy texts to this guy, and they were flirting back and forth in all of their messages.
This guy was calling his wife “baby” and his “love” even though they hadn’t known one another that long at all.
What really broke his heart the most, though, was coming across the photos his wife had texted this guy literally right after they had their conversation about having a family together.
Oh, and while he and his wife were on the couch together, his wife spent 3 hours texting this other guy too.
He is so in love with his wife, but he doesn’t know where to go from here.
What do you think he should do?
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