She Told Her Ex He’s Not Allowed To Bring His New Wife, Who Destroyed Their Marriage, To Their Daughter’s Birthday Party
This woman spent five years married to her now ex-husband David, and they got divorced last year.
They do have a daughter named Lily together, and she just turned 7-years-old. As she was preparing for Lily’s birthday party, she asked Lily who should be on the guest list.
Lily requested that her cousins, uncles, and aunts from both her side and David’s side be at the party, which didn’t bother her in the least.
She’s comfortable with David’s family, so she was totally fine with Lily wanting them at the party. She ended up calling David to tell him about who Lily wanted to come, but then he brought up his new wife.
“He told me that he will bring his wife; he didn’t ask me; he told me like he was forcing it because he knew I would say no, and I did say no,” she explained.
“I told [him] that I was not comfortable with his wife, especially her meeting Lily, and Lily doesn’t even know her that much, and I haven’t even had a proper talk with her before she can see my daughter.”
“The only thing I knew about this lady was that she did something wrong with my husband, knowing very well he’s married and has a daughter, and I was supposed to feel comfortable with that.”
Yeah, David clearly cheated on her with his new wife, so it’s easy to see why she doesn’t want this woman at Lily’s birthday party.
Anyway, David argued with her that she was making Lily’s party all about her and that Lily is his daughter, too.
Ksenia – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual child
Lily doesn’t know why she and David split up, and David insisted that his new wife is so excited to get to see Lily.
She informed David that if his wife is looking forward to meeting Lily that much, she has to have a conversation with her first so she can decide whether or not she’s someone she can trust around Lily.
“He replied to me by saying that I was jealous and that I didn’t want Lily to see her new family and be comfortable with them, and that I was hurting his wife because I wouldn’t let her see her stepdaughter, who is like her own daughter,” she said.
“I was done with him and told him if he didn’t want to come, then it’s fine it’s not like he paid a single dime for anything for the birthday party, and he was crazy for me to say yes to a woman who ruined my marriage and is the reason why my daughter has to grow up with separated parents.”
She’s left wondering if she was wrong to tell David his new wife is excluded from Lily’s birthday party.
What do you think?
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