His Girlfriend Randomly Broke Up With Him As A “Test,” And He Only Found Out He’d “Failed” Her Little Stunt After She Showed Up At His House Claiming He Needed To “Do Better”
This guy and his girlfriend had been dating for nine months, and honestly, he thought everything in their relationship was wonderful.
Well, that was until one month ago when his girlfriend suddenly told him that she wanted to break up out of absolutely nowhere.
He was understandably confused by that, too, and asked her what had happened. At that point, his girlfriend just accused him of being inattentive to her and claimed that she deserved better.
“I was confused, angry, and hurt all at the same time. I thought I was paying her the right amount of attention, but obviously, she didn’t think so,” he recalled.
On top of that, he admitted that he actually would’ve fought to pay more attention to his girlfriend and salvage their relationship.
But, once she said that she could “do better,” he got very “riled up” and didn’t want to fight for her anymore.
That’s why he ultimately cut all communication with his girlfriend. He unfollowed her on social media and blocked her on all of his accounts. Plus, he even deleted her contact information and text messages from his phone.
“It was to the point that, even if I wanted to contact her, I couldn’t unless I drove to her place,” he explained.
“And I spent the month in pain, and I’ll admit, I cried a few times. Her words that she could do better haunted me.”
Nick Starichenko – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Well, just last night, he was completely caught off guard when he received a knock on his front door and found his now ex-girlfriend standing outside his house. Then, she attempted to ask how he’d been, but he simply cut her off and asked what she was doing there.
At that point, his ex revealed that he’d just “failed her test.” In other words, the whole breakup was just a “test,” and he was “supposed” to start paying more attention to her and winning her back– not cut-off contact.
His ex-girlfriend didn’t stop there, either. Instead, she actually told him that he “needed to do better” because she planned to take him back!
He couldn’t believe his ears, and he actually just slammed the door in her face. Afterward, his ex-girlfriend spent the following 10 minutes begging him to talk.
To make matters worse, she and her friends then proceeded to blow up his phone the whole night– claiming that it was “normal” for women to test their boyfriends. So, they accused him of overreacting.
“They said that normally, they start out with small tests, but my ex jumped the gun and went for the big test because she saw us together for a long time and wanted to make sure I was the one,” he explained.
Regardless, he never responded to any of the messages and just wound up blocking every single number that tried to text him.
Still, ever since finding out the truth behind his breakup, he’s been left wondering if he was really the jerk for failing his ex’s “test” or not.
What do you think of relationship “tests?” How would you feel if your partner tried to manipulate you like that? Does he have anything to feel sorry about or not?
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