She Broke Up With Her Boyfriend Because He Lied About His Mom Dying, Then She Actually Met His Mom At His House
This 23-year-old woman recently broke up with her boyfriend. Before she ended the relationship, they dated for several years.
While they were together, he was kind to her, and from the moment they met, they had an intense connection.
Over the years, they had problems because they didn’t meet in person, and their entire relationship was long-distance.
They got together in person for the first time just last week. Unfortunately, it didn’t go well and led to the breakup because she no longer felt confident in her boyfriend’s character.
Sadly, her grandpa died a year ago. He was the kindest man she’d ever known, and they were incredibly close.
Her grandfather had a great sense of humor, constantly telling her hilarious jokes. No one made her laugh that hard. A week after her grandpa’s death, she called her boyfriend just to talk.
During the phone call, she shared her screen with him while talking about her grandfather. She then opened up her text messages and looked through the conversation between her and her grandpa.
“There was a message that he sent saying, ‘Will you be my Valentine?’ and, apparently, my boyfriend found that appalling. He said, ‘That’s disgusting.’ I tried to explain it was just a sweet gesture, but he couldn’t process that,” she said.
Their conversation grew so tense that she got upset and hung up on him. After that, they didn’t speak for a week.
Kostiantyn – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Then, her boyfriend sent her a text message, saying sorry for his insensitive comments about her grandpa. She still felt angry about his mean comments. From there, they began fighting again until he blocked her phone number.
Once she realized she was blocked, she messaged her boyfriend on Instagram, and in response, he sent a screenshot of a text message he’d supposedly sent to her that she never got.
“He told me his mom died, and that was why he was being a jerk to me, and I felt awful. I made it up to him by playing his favorite games with him and calling him every night,” she explained.
Last week, she traveled to meet her boyfriend in person for the first time. At first, the trip was fantastic.
Her boyfriend was just as nice as he’d been on the phone over the last few years. Plus, he was thrilled for her to have the opportunity to introduce her to his family, and she felt the same way.
When they arrived at his house, where his family was gathered, she met everyone, and they all welcomed her in as if she was already part of the family.
“He mentioned his mom. I pulled him aside into another room to make sure I wasn’t just hearing stuff. He said that was his mom and asked me why I was asking. I looked at him with a disgusted look on my face and just walked out,” she shared.
After she left, she crafted and sent her boyfriend a text, telling him she was dumping him and why. In the text, she expressed what made her decide to break up with him, but he never responded, even though she knew he read her message.
Now, she isn’t sure if she should give him another chance or stand by her initial decision to end the relationship.
What advice would you give her?
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