She Was Invited To Her Late Fiancé’s Sister’s Wedding, But She Knows Her Late Fiancé’s Parents Don’t Want Her There
Back in May of 2021, this woman’s fiancé, John, tragically passed away very unexpectedly.
Her late fiancé had been sick since 2018, struggling with anxiety, depression, and neuropathy. According to her, John was also a heavy drinker, which did not help his health.
“I was his sole caretaker in every way until the end,” she recalled.
She was also always extremely close to her late fiancé’s family– especially his sister, Jane.
But, in October of 2021, she wound up meeting someone new following the loss of her fiancé. Things started off slowly with a few lunch dates, and eventually, she ultimately fell for the guy– who is now her boyfriend.
However, her late fiancé’s mother was not happy at all. In fact, John’s mom actually accused her of being a “traitor” for moving on so soon.
Thankfully, though, John’s sister, Jane, was extremely supportive.
And now, Jane’s sister is engaged to be wed and even invited both her and her new boyfriend to the wedding. It’s also important to note that Jane didn’t just invite her boyfriend as a plus-one, either. Instead, he was actually invited by name.
But her late fiancé’s parents had not spoken to her until October 2021, when she started her new relationship. So, after they saw her name on the guest list, a massive argument broke out.
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Her late fiancé’s parents got into a fight with Jane because they simply did not want her to be invited to the event.
“Stating that they believe I knew John was going to die and that I didn’t tell them and they could have saved him,” she revealed.
Still, Jane has gone to bat for her– reportedly fighting “tooth and nail” just to stand up for her attending the wedding.
Nonetheless, with the big day getting closer and closer, her anxiety is starting to seriously skyrocket. Her nerves have even gotten so bad that she considered no longer attending the wedding at all.
“But Jane fought so hard for me that I feel disrespectful for letting my anxiety get the better of me,” she said.
So, while she very well knows that her late fiancé’s parents do not want her there, she really does not want to miss out on Jane’s special day.
Still, she is very nervous about how Jane’s parents will react when they see her at the ceremony.
“And I want that day to be the best ever for Jane,” she vented.
That’s why she’s now wondering whether going to the wedding, even though her late fiancé’s parents don’t want her there, would be the wrong thing to do or not.
If Jane wants her at the wedding, doesn’t she have a right to go? At the same time, can you understand why she doesn’t want to create any unnecessary drama on Jane’s wedding day? If you were in her shoes, would you go to the event or not?
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