He Dumped His Girlfriend After Finding Out She Was The Mistress Of A Married Man Before He Met Her
Four years ago, this 41-year-old man began dating his 38-year-old girlfriend. While he thinks his girlfriend is an amazing woman and he loves her, he recently uncovered a dark secret from her past that ruined his opinion of her.
He no longer feels that his girlfriend is a wonderful person, and what she did was so immoral in his book that it shattered his trust in her.
It all started with a friend request he got on social media from a guy who clearly was in his girlfriend’s social circle.
Now, he never accepts friend requests from people he doesn’t know in real life. He decided to ask his girlfriend who this guy was and why he was sending him a friend request.
His girlfriend hesitated before mentioning this guy is part of her friend group and they no longer hang out since he moved away.
He didn’t press further, but the whole thing seemed suspicious to him. Two weeks passed before he brought up the guy again in conversation, as he couldn’t get over that things were off about the guy.
It was then his girlfriend admitted to him that she was this married man’s mistress up until a year before he met his girlfriend.
“She has no regret or remorse because she did not know the other woman, and they had no kids together at the time,” she explained.
“The affair never got out, she’s not a homewrecker on the strict definition of the term. The other couple is still together as of today and they are not in an open relationship. Out of curiosity, I checked out the guy’s profile, which is public, and I see that she comments on every picture he posts, even the family pictures with kids and wife.”
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His girlfriend even left a comment on a photo he shared of his wife’s wedding ring, saying it was nice.
He was so upset to learn that his girlfriend was leaving comments on the couple’s photos, as to him, the whole situation proves his girlfriend has no integrity or empathy.
His girlfriend responded that her comments most likely make this guy’s wife feel good, and since this woman doesn’t know about the past affair, it won’t hurt her.
How his girlfriend handled that made him come to the realization that he wanted to end their relationship, so he dumped her.
“The door is still opened on her side to get back with me (she wants kids), but I am really struggling to decide if this is the good decision,” he said.
“Now, I’m wondering if I’m overreacting and if I should reach out to the wife. In her position, I would like to know, am I over-reaching?”
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