His 24-Year-Old Brother Is Dating A Woman 2 Decades Older Than He Is, And After He Said This Woman Should’t Come To Their Friend’s Birthday Party, His Brother Got Upset
This man has a 24-year-old brother who is currently in a relationship with a woman 2 decades older than he is, and they started dating several months ago.
His brother works as a personal trainer, and his brother wound up meeting the woman he’s dating at the gym.
Recently, he and his sister questioned his brother about his relationship and where it’s even headed, and his brother maintained that he’s just trying to have a nice time for the here and now.
He understands that, and he believes his brother is of the age where it makes sense not to want a committed, long-term relationship.
So, he and his brother have a lot of the same friends, and when his brother started seeing this woman, his brother never invited her to come along to any of their social events.
Lately, though, his brother has been saying he would like to bring the woman that he’s seeing with them to all of their gatherings.
What he finds strange is that his brother never refers to this woman as his girlfriend or anything; he only refers to her by her first name and nothing more.
“The problem is that nobody really cares for her presence,” he explained. “She’s very much into her physical appearance and making videos and pics of gym selfies, by the pool, or travel, and sometimes including my brother in them like a prop with hashtags about their age gap.”
“She has an established career, but she’s also not been the most personable. When our parents met her, my mom being the way moms are, asked if she had been married or anything previously, and she snipped back at my mom in a way that I and my sister didn’t care about.”
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“Our friends have said that it’s not fun having out with our brother when she’s around because she makes everything about her, she’s not really into getting to know anyone, or she’ll bring one of her single girlfriends uninvited, and it’s just mega awkward for everyone.”
One of his and his brother’s friends has a birthday happening soon, and they’re all going to have a night out in the city. His brother stated that he would like to bring the woman that he’s seeing, but he reminded his brother that their friend just wants his closest friends there.
His brother agreed to go to the party alone, but then when this woman found out about the party, she insisted on coming too. He mentioned to his brother that it wasn’t ok for him to bring this woman to the party since it was supposed to be close friends only, but his brother got really upset.
Then, this woman sent a message to his sister on social media demanding to know why she was not invited to the party too. His sister responded back that the guest list was reserved for their friend’s closest friends, but then this woman shot back that he is envious of his brother since he’s single.
“I messaged her myself after that and reiterated this gathering was for close friends only, she was not invited, and that I would appreciate it if she was more respectful toward myself and my family, and now my brother isn’t talking to any of us,” he said.
After everything that has happened surrounding his friend’s upcoming birthday party, he no longer wants this woman at any social events he and his brother go to.
He’s left wondering if that’s wrong of him. What do you think?
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